Makeup Sex

I Gerald 46 and my wife is Judy 44, we have 2 grown children who are at university. We got into rut and started fighting a lot. When we were first alone together after the children had left for university. But after the fight we became very passionate and had great sex. Now we fight almost every week and have passionate sex after the fight. But it started to get a bit forced, so we tried different things. Like going away on weekends and picking places to stay in, by sticking a pin in the phone book. The same with picking a place to eat. This helped our fighting to be more real than trying to fight over something picked at random and improved our sex even more.