It finally dawned on me

I finished my studies at university and then straight into a job at the family company. I'd done the courses to be able to fill the job I got, so I didn't start at a low position. I also got an assistant, at first, I got a filler. Until I had settled in and then found my own assistant. The woman I got was quiet and nice looking, a year younger than me and knew she was just filling in to I found my permanent assistant. But she could do the work as they say and was available whenever I required her. I was out partying and had too much to drink and needed help getting home, my buddies just left me to get home myself. So, I called my assistant to assist me, she came in a cab picked me up and took me home put me to bed and then went to her home. I knew I had cost her money for the cab fares and repaid her. I realized she was just what I needed as an assistant, so I told her she was my permanent assistant. That how it was for about 2 years. Only thing besides work I'd to do was attend church with the family every Sunday and my assistant knew I was going partying would come over early Sunday mornings and make sure I was up and got ready for Church and sometimes had to take me there, as I wasn't quite able at times to go by myself. I started getting hints it was time to settle down as the family put it and find a wife and start a family. None of the women I was seeing were marriage material and wouldn't pass muster by the family. My assistant as usual was looking after me and one night I was drunk and again she came and got me home and I got aroused and made a move on her and she slept with me. In the morning I fucked her again before we went to Church together, while sitting thru the boring Church service. Sitting between my assistant and my grandmother. I'd an epiphany of a sort, I realized the only woman I knew worth marrying was my assistant. She was liked by me, and my family and my grandparents and parents had all said she was a great. As the service was ending and my assistant was distracted by my parents, I asked my grandmother if she thought my assistant would make me a good wife. I expected her to be shocked, she wasn't and answered Oh you finally have your eyes open. We got into my car to go, and I straight asked my assistant to marry me, she thought I was joking at first. But once she realized I was serious, she asked was it because we had sex and I told her maybe a little, but I truly believe your perfect for me. Her next question was would my family accept her as my wife, and I said they already have. I than told her to make time to pick out a ring in the morning, she said I haven't said yes yet. Well, is your answer I asked and she okay I might as well. That evening dinner with the parents and grandparents, all were happy with our engagement. By the end of the following week, she had moved in with me fulltime. No partying that weekend as I had to see my future in-laws. I passed muster and we married 2 months later, my wife stayed as my assistant even those she was pregnant. Still is actually, we've 3 children a boy and twin girls. There are plenty of willing babysitters between the parents and grandparents. If I need to leave the office for a meeting my grandmother come in and watches our children while we're gone. The only major change was giving up my apartment for a 4bed house. My wife is taken away from at times as she is used to replace my grandfather's assistant when she is away, and he is a grumpy person and not many willing to work closely with him. My wife is one of the very few people and he isn't grumpy with her, as his wife will make him sorry if he is. My assistant's assistant takes her place at the time, but only in the office.