Overseas

After university I went overseas to pursue my career and was doing well in my career and fairly well dating. But as I moved around a great deal because of my career, had no long-lasting relationships. Finally settling in one place for a while and able to pursue a long-term relationship and was 33 at the time. I'd an assistant 26 who really impressed me in her abilities and looks, single and unattached and I thought I might try and start a relationship with her. But I then heard she was unavailable, not because she was engaged, but because she had no dowry. Her father was dead, and her family were living off her earnings and so she wasn't on the local marriage circuit. That meant dating also, she was the family only support and out of bounds for marriage. That of course wasn't on my radar as they say, but she wouldn't date anyone as it would shame her, and her family more than they were already. So, I didn't ask her out now knowing the local dating rules. That was until I heard of an old custom of a family dowry, not really practiced anymore. Where her family became the dowry for her and acted as servants for the husband and his wife. But I couldn't date her first, I had to arrange the marriage thru a broker and marry her first. Then and only then could I have a relationship with her, her family was just her mother 42 and sister 23. No dowry was needed for the sister after our marriage as she was a servant not family and I didn't have to provide a dowry for her to marry. Also, both the daughters were passed the usual marriage age being older than 18. In the past they were married from the age of 13 to 18, but now it's 16 to 18. I was hooked by the forbidden fruit scenario; told you can't have something the more you want it. So, I went and seen a marriage broker who acted on my behalf and after several meetings between the broker and her mother a deal was done. A few weeks after we married, and we all lived together. My wife got pregnant rather quickly, too quickly for me at first. But anyway, another benefit I hadn't thought of was her mother and sister were duty bound to care for my every need. I knew of the duty rule of the servant in such a relationship but hadn't thought it went as far as sexual rights for me as well. That I found out when my wife was told to stop sex in the later stage of her pregnancy. Her mother took over providing sex and shortly after her sister also took care of my sexual needs, she was delated by her period. Another thing I didn't take into account, was they never use precautions, and I got my sister-in-law pregnant as well. Thus, she became my second wife, and I also took their mother as my third wife. Thus, I don't have servants anymore and had 3 wives 3 children on my return home. Not actually married to my mother-in-law or sister-in-law, but they have my name as theirs were changed before passports and visa were sought. I'm now 38 very happy with my family and my wife is still my assistant as I have 2 other wives to take care of our children.