Resetting

I have a good career and had put everything into it and lost my wife and children as a result. After the divorce I returned home to lick my wounds, my parents were supportive, and I try to reset my life. Still working and doing well and slowly cut down my work hours and reconnected with my children at first and thru them my ex-wife. The spark was still there and overtime we started dating again and sleeping together. The thing that really cemented our reunion was her getting pregnant again. But not wanting to repeat my mistakes, I purchased the house across the street from our parents, my wife's parent are next door neighbors to my parents and always have been. So, with our parents across the street we weren't so isolated as we were before and had babysitters handy across the street. It has been 4 years since we remarried, and I now have better Homelife and WorkLife balance and 2 extra children. The major change is my family comes first every time and that's how it should be. The only problem with my first marriage to my wife I wasn't aware my family should always come first.