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I'm Aden 32 and married in May 2018, I'm was the last of my family line and was very determined to increase my family. So after my brother died 2017 and him being my only living relative. I looked at finding a wife and having children as many as possible, but then I read how people were married and didn't have any children due to problems with either partner. So I got tested and was found to be healthy, a career wife wasn't an option either as they might prefer career over having a family. While researching what was the best way to ensure having a family, I read about poorer countries families having large families. So I decide to check out so called mail order brides, nothing that took my interest straight away. Money wasn't a concern to me as I'm the last of a well off family and everything came to me. So I moved abroad to a country and I started to learn its customs and language and when able to get by with someone translating I started looking for a wife. I met Mia and I liked what I saw and started taking her out, but she came from a strict family and it seemed I wasn't the right person for marriage. But I soon found out it wasn't that I was not the right person. They were poor and couldn't afford a dowry and so they would date and that was it. No sex or anything else, telling Mia I wasn't interested in a dowry. Didn't change things either, a matter of family honor and being poor didn't change anything. I read about how the honor worked in the country and nothing seemed to change my chances of marrying Mia who I was really fond of at the time. But I kept reading and came across another way that honor worked, debt inside the family wasn't expected to be paid back. Especially if the the debtor couldn't afford to pay it back. Debts in inside the family were like gifts to help a family member, on the surface it wasn't much help. But I was just thinking about Mia and it hit me, I could loan them the money for the dowry and after I was married. I would be family and the debt wouldn't have to be paid back if they couldn't afford too. Mia wasn't convinced her mother Maria would accept that way of paying a dowry. But I decided to ask Maria anyway, she wasn't very positive in her first response. But I asked her to think it over and not give a quick response. She agreed, then her other daughter Marie got ill and they were worried they couldn't afford their medical care. I and Mia took Marie to the doctor and I paid the bills that came with that. Marie recovered and Maria was grateful, but also worried about the cost. So I pushed my idea of the loan and marrying Mia and then them being family the loan was not a outside debt of the family but a family debt. Maria finally agreed and I married Mia, then Marie would also be able to marry with me paying the dowry. Mia asked would I be willing to pay such a dowry and I said yes. But Maria thought it was a step to far, I told it was my duty as a member of the family to help the family. Saying I'm the last in my family line and anything I could do to expand my family line I would. Maria was silence and didn't say anything until the next day. I was shocked at first, by her response and when Mia agreed with Maria and then Marie also agreed. Maria suggested that Marie also become like a wife to me and have children for me. I said it's not allowed to marry more than one woman at a time. Who said anything about marriage Maria said and continued saying we all live together and you and Mia are married and Marie is your family wife. You have children with both and only the family need know. It was me who had to think it over and with Mia wanting me to agree, I finally did. But I used it as a excuse to return home and away from people who knew the family and would pick up on the family having extra children and and Marie not being married. I thought it would be hard to get them to agree, but they agreed and we moved back to my home in 2019. I bought a farm outside of my old home town and in 2020 Mia had our first child a boy followed a couple of month by a girl to Marie. Maria is past having children, but has joined in a sexual relationship after I suggested she could find herself a husband also. But she decided to keep it in house, Mia is pregnant again and Marie is in the process of weening our daughter.