The widow

I'm divorced and have 2 children who live with their mother, I pay alimony and child support and can visit the children anytime with prior notice (at least 3days). My job makes impossible to have them stay with me on holidays as I travel a great deal for my job. Getting leave during school holidays is almost impossible and so I prefer to visit them regularly instead. Once divorced I relocated to a more central position of my work area, cutting down travel time to and from work. I live in an apartment it's called, but it's just a large room with an attached bathroom. Kitchen, lounge and bedroom all in one. I finally got promoted and was entitled to an assistant. At 46 I was still required to travel as much and supervise more than actually work hands on. I hired a widow 53 family all grown and able to travel with me short notice. A month after she started working for me, she became my lover as well. Neither of us had any relationship and sort of just drifted in to becoming lover. More of a friend with benefits type relationship then a full-on romance. She now visits my children with me and is on friendly terms with my ex-wife 44. My wife hasn't remarried and works at the school library where my children attend. So, when we visit them, we all hang out together that includes going to movies and dinner and as of last visit my ex-wife slept with and my assistant. But to say we might get back together is a bit early at this stage. But chances have improved in that area since my promotion and getting my assistant.