Failed at dating so I just got married

As the title says I (34) really failed at dating, but I got passed that by marrying. It might seem strange, but I wasn't the only relationship failure out there. Females as well as males don't do well and some even worse than I did, not many but some. I'm good at listening and I overheard a female co-worker (32) complaining to her friend about her lousy dates and the creeps (her description) she dated. Wanting sex first date and even worse things on a first date and no attempt at starting a relationship. By chance as I was in a senior position to her and now knowing her failed relationship status like mine. Gave me the slim chance of a relationship with her, if I played my cards right. So, first I arranged for her to be assigned to me as an assistant and it was easy to arrange. Second not to try to start a relationship at first meeting, keep it all business. Third once we were relaxed with each other, slowly trying to start a relationship (Close friendship first). The third step was the hardest but went fairly well no major problems. Then I needed a way to move it along without ruining everything. A out of town project was the solution, both in a strange place you keep closer than back at home. Staying in separate rooms at a motel for a week, done the trick. Still no sex or actual dating, but we had meals together and were on very good terms. Then a spoiler dropped in, I hadn't considered. I was promoted, but I was able to keep my assistant, saying we got on well together. Thus, she was promoted to my personal assistant, and she got pay raise as a result. Now closer than ever workwise, I needed a reason to be away with her again. Hoping to move our friendship to the next level, none came up. But the annual company management dinner did, it would be my first as I was now in the management level. I didn't need to attend I could say I had the Flu or something and miss it. My personal assistant enquired why I had crossed it out in my work diary, I said I had no one to take and didn't want to go alone. Hoping she would offer to go with me she didn't, but it was in her mind at least. Later on, she said she had heard it was good for people's careers to attend the company dinners. I said maybe so, but I didn't want to go alone, and I asked would you go with me. I had two reasons first if she said no, I could say see nobody wants to go with me, if she said yes, I would actually be dating her. She thought about it and when I thought she was about say no, she okay I will go with you. I was bit stunned that she accepted at first, later on she said she didn't think she had the right dress suitable for the dinner. I said I'm hiring a tux and I'll hire you a dress, but we went to the hire company together and she picked the dress and my tux. The dinner went very well, and I kissed her, and I she kissed me back. Several days later I decided to try my luck and actually ask her out on a date, and she accepted. But I was I asked to oversee a project as the manager had an accident but would be able to take my assistant with me. Two rooms at a motel again but we had our date the first night we were there, nothing sexual. But the next night we had dinner together and ended up in bed together and the condom broke. It didn't worry me, but she wasn't protected and thought she might get pregnant. I was a bit stupid in my reply saying I hope you do, but realizing it was a bit stupid added, so you'll have to marry me then. At first, she thought I was being a bit incentive. But I added I really think you'll be my perfect wife, that made her realized I was serious about marriage. So, she accepted my proposal and within a month we were married, and she didn't pregnant. But has since gotten pregnant and is still my personal assistant, helped by her divorced mother who moved in with us and who mind our daughter. After 6 years of marriage and 2 children and another on the way, everything is just great.